Craft your Journey

On Purpose with Purpose


Meet Your Coach


I'm Tanguy, a fatherhood coach who believes a child's birth is also a father's birth. My path here started as a student, teacher, and coach, shaped early by my Haitian upbringing, where raising a child was never just one person's job. It took aunts, uncles, neighbors, elders, a whole village showing up for that child. Fathers were never a footnote in that village. They were one of its central pillars. That belief has stayed with me, and it shapes everything about how I see the role fathers play, not just at home, but in the wider fabric around a child.That path eventually led me somewhere more personal: helping men navigate the moment nobody really prepares them for. I know that threshold firsthand, the excitement, the angst, the questions you don't quite know where to put. My own experience becoming a father, my roots, and years spent in men's work learning what real presence actually asks of us, all shaped how I coach today.I work with fathers who want to be dependable without being rigid, grounded without being distant, present enough that their child actually feels it. My approach is built on honesty, non-judgmental listening, and real conversation, seeing the whole man in front of me and believing in his capacity to grow.I still offer general life and clarity coaching privately for existing clients, but my current focus is walking alongside fathers.

This I Believe


At the heart of my coaching practice is the belief that fathers are one of the most valuable, and most overlooked, resources a family has.I approach this work through four core pillars:

  • Purpose : Knowing why you're showing up, even on the days it's hard to remember.

  • Presence: Being in the room, not just in body, but actually there, paying attention, being actively involved.

  • Groundedness: Staying steady for the people who need you, even while you're still finding your own footing.

  • Responsibility: Carrying what's yours to carry, for your partner, your child, and yourself.


If you are asking yourself questions like this, you are not alone


  • Am I actually going to be good at this?

  • What if something happens and I don't know what to do?

  • Is it normal to feel this way, or is something wrong with me?

  • Where do I fit in all of this, when everyone's focused on your partner and the baby?

  • Am I allowed to still want my old life too?

  • How do I show up for her when I'm barely holding it together myself?


Three things I coach Fathers to Transform

Build real steadiness
Learn how to stay steady when things get hard, sleepless nights, tension, uncertainty, so your family feels your calm instead of your stress.
Face what's unresolved
Look honestly at the parts of your own story still weighing on you, so old patterns stop running the show.
Step into your role fully
Own your place as a father by leading with steadiness, care, and presence.


Your Coaching Journey

Discovery Call

Are you considering working with me as a fatherhood coach? Schedule a FREE introduction meeting here. A no-pressure conversation about whether this is the right fit for you, and whether my way of coaching suits where you're at. A discovery call takes 30 minutes.

Super Session

One challenge. One session. Clear next steps
A focused 60-minute coaching session to help you get clear and move forward fast! Whether you're facing a decision, navigating a challenge, or needing clarity on a specific goal, this session is designed to give you traction in one sitting. You'll leave with sharper insight, next-step clarity, and renewed direction.
Perfect for:
* Making a tough decision
* Untangling a situation you’ve been overthinking
* Gaining clarity on one specific goal or project

Becoming — 12-Week 1:1 Coaching

Fathers are not born. They are made.Ready to go all in? This is the container. Twelve weeks of structured, 1:1 work, not a blueprint to follow, but a space to figure out your own. Together, we focus on your role as a father and partner, so that when the hard nights and harder questions come, you're not scrambling to figure out who to be. You already know.Fatherhood isn't built in a single conversation, it's built daily. Throughout the program, you'll carry a simple daily anchor practice, a few minutes each day that keep you connected to who you're becoming, not just what you're doing. And rather than leaving the big moments to chance, we mark them on purpose.By the end of these twelve weeks, you won't just have talked about fatherhood. You'll have practiced it, tested it, and built something real: a version of yourself you trust under pressure.

What's included

  • 12 x weekly 1:1 coaching sessions

  • DM access between sessions for ongoing support

  • Daily anchor practice, a short ritual that keeps you connected to the father you're building

  • Marking moments, key thresholds in the journey treated with intention

  • Future Authoring exercises, writing yourself forward into the role you're stepping into

  • A final reflection, a tangible record of where you started and who you've become

What to expect when you commit

  • Regulate, Don't React: Stay steady through difficult moments instead of getting hijacked by them

  • Show Up, Not Just Show Present: Close the gap between being in the room and actually being there

  • Lead Without Controlling: Guide your family with steadiness, not force

  • Set Real Boundaries: Protect the time and energy your family and your own wellbeing both need

  • Process What You Carry: Work through your own father's imprint so it stops repeating without your permission

  • Build Partnership: Move from managing tasks with your partner to being a team


What People are saying...

What Past Clients Say
What Past Clients Say

"Tanguy has helped me gain clarity and direction in my personal life, by guiding me in defining my goal. I appreciated his approach as an insightful and compassionate person, and I really felt supported through his process. I highly recommend his services to anyone seeking guidance in their life."

Nathalie

"Working with Tanguy as a coach has truly transformed my outlook on life. His warmth, care, and unwavering support made me feel comfortable and confident from the start. His approach is unique; he offers the tools and insights needed for real, lasting change. I felt supported at every step, and his guidance has empowered me to move forward with clarity and purpose."

Sam

"Tanguy was a calming and peaceful presence during our coaching journey. He helped me gain clarity and found creative ways to dig deeper into my story without judgement or shame. I highly recommend Tanguy and am excited to see his practice grow."

Kevin

"Tanguy is an impressive coach and an incredible listener. Tanguy is very insightful and has a strong capacity to help you negotiate personal, professional and relationship matters. I am delighted that I have had time to work with him. I am a better person for it. He has given me practical skills to engage in the world around me. You will not be disappointed, he is a delightful human being and a real gem!"

Pascal Murphy
President, Murphy & Fox Inc., Professional Coach

"Tanguy provided thoughtful, intentional coaching that helped me gain clarity, confidence, and alignment during a key season of professional growth. His ability to listen deeply, ask the right questions, and guide reflection led to meaningful insights in a short amount of time. I left our four hours of coaching with renewed direction and practical tools I continue to use in my leadership work."

Dr. Moni Avila, Ed.D.

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